No one gives a shit about you. (self.TheRedPill)
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Forget about your friends. Forget about your family. Forget about the people around you that you already know. Concentrate on strangers.
Strangers, they don't give a shit about you. Girls you don't know don't give a shit about you.
These girls ONLY respond to the value that you add to their lives. They don't give a shit about you. They give a shit about the value that you add, or will add, or etc.
Women are by nature hypergamous and solipsistic. I have not met one woman that is not hypergamous and solipsistic. Not one. And it is because of hypergamy and solipsism that women will only respond to something that adds value to their life. Because of solipsism, she cares only about herself. Because of hypergamy, she will try to get what maximizes the value addition to her life, while living her life as she pleases. She doesn't give a shit about you.
This logic can be applied to all situations. What is the best approach you can take to attain your desired result? Simply the approach that adds enough value to her life to attain your desired result, because girls only respond to the value that you add to their life. This is where game comes in. Understanding what women respond to. Game is understanding how to add value to a woman's life so that you attain your desired result.
So my question to you is this: Why do you set the bar for the amount of value a woman needs to add to your life for her to achieve her desired result so low? Why do you sacrifice so much of what you want to set the bar lower for women?
This whole reality is hard to accept. Part of accepting this reality is that you will see that there is no reason for you to set the bar low for yourself. We have been programmed to set the bar low. It will be painful for you to let go of this. It will be painful for you to accept that on the bottom line, she doesn't care about you, she cares about what you can do for her. It will be painful for you to accept that the methods you were equipped with for attaining your desired result with women are not anywhere near the best methods.
This brings me to my next point. You add value to a girl. She adds value back to you. By improving yourself, you will increase the value that you add to a girl. By setting the bar high for yourself you will increase the value that you receive, if a girl is ready to give that value to you. The final step is to maximize the value that you receive from women.
The acceptance that you need to maximize your own value will bring you the most pain. You will need to sacrifice her needs for your own.
Now that you understand the concept, think about how it changes if it's not a stranger. If it's a friend, family member, or significant other. Do you think that the concept disappears as you add closeness? No, it just evolves. What changes is what adds value to your and her life. The formula is still valid.
What have we been programmed to do? To set the bar low for women. To not maximize our own value. The evidence is all around you. Red Pill opens you up to your true value.
19 comments submitted at 11:50:33 on Dec 27, 2013 by YouDislikeMyOpinion