Talk shit about me? Lose your job. (self.ProRevenge)

{ProRevenge}

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Many many years ago when I was in college, I briefly dated a nice looking young man who I'll refer to as Mike. I found out about a week in that Mike was heavily into drinking and some drugs that I wasn't comfortable with, including crack and heroin (I was an average 20-something pot smoker who sometimes did mushrooms but nothing else.)

We dated for about 2 weeks, then Christmas rolled around. After a long heart-to-heart with a friend, Mike decided to go clean and quickly broke up with me because "I was a bad influence" even though I had been nothing but supportive of his decision. The whole "bad influence" thing was laughable since I'd only known him about a 20 days and I had originally decided to be open-minded about his drug use and give him a chance. Same didn't apply for me, I guess.

I thought he was out of my life but we had similar friends so sometimes we ran into each other. After each run-in, I would hear from those friends that he never stopped talking smack about me, even when said friends told him to stfu. Since he was now "A Proud Member of AA and NA", he felt it was his duty to inform everyone that- as a pot smoker - I was a filthy drug addict, and the way he tells it, I was completely responsible for his drug habit... the drug habit that he had for years before our brief 2-week dating experience. One time we ran into each other at a club and after I left he stated that "there's extra security at the door, probably because they know she's got drugs on her." For some reason he liked to target me and it got old real fast.

15 years pass, I made new friends, started a business, and moved to a new location. Lo and behold I find out that Mike is a Chemistry teacher at my local high school. He's teaching the children of some of my closest friends in the area, so I decide it's time for some revenge.

I let them know that I have some concerns about their children's Chemistry teacher. I state in hushed secretive tones over dinner parties and at Chamber of Commerce meetings that he's a heroin addict and has a drinking problem and that I've been hearing through the grapevine that he's been dating one of his students on the downlow.

It only took a month of a full inverstigation and he was subsequently fired. After asking around (a friend of mine works at the school, which is how the word spread so fast,) it turns out that he did have drugs in his system while teaching. Wow. I guess he's no longer A Proud Member of AA anymore, which I find ironic.

Maybe if he didn't have some unresolved personal vendetta against me and kept his mouth shut, then he'd still have a job. And as it turns out I actually did that high school a favor, so everyone but Mike is happy in the end.

138 comments submitted at 20:17:20 on Mar 9, 2013 by mahrevengethrowaway

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  • H00ded
  • 53 Points
  • 07:26:39, 10 March

Wow, you are actually a horrible horrible human being. Yikes.

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  • Cthulusbaby
  • 88 Points
  • 06:28:27, 10 March

Wow, you are a fucking monster. You screw up a man's life because of some bad things he said about you 15 years ago?? What the hell is wrong with you?

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  • JustGotIllustrator
  • -53 Points
  • 14:49:24, 10 March

What the hell is wrong with you, this is a strong independent woman who finally righted a wrong. I find it empowering that she had the "balls" to do it. reddit just hates her because she is a girl, if it was a guy you would all be cheering him on.

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  • babno
  • 23 Points
  • 15:11:23, 10 March

How is ruining a persons career via false rape claims proper retaliation against a harmless rumors 15 years previously? This isn't empowering, it's slimy immature and monstrous.

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  • JustGotIllustrator
  • -29 Points
  • 15:16:30, 10 March

HE HAD DRUGS IN HIS SYSTEM AND WAS A TEACHER, how is this not obvious. If he had drugs in his system he should not be a teacher, and because the law sympathizes with men adding an extra crime does not seem at all unfair, this way he will not be put in front of children again. There are plenty of fine gals right out of school trying to get teaching jobs, and this scumbag is let in. I cant believe everyone is siding with the man here. Not only that but is there any evidence that he was not doing this? No. Reddit just hates women.

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  • babno
  • 12 Points
  • 15:26:24, 10 March

The drugs are not relevant when judging op because she did not know. She was lying even though it happened to be true. The other part is the false rape allegation, which due to the drugs is likely still being investigated, and can mean jail time and lifetime as a sex offender which would stop him from even more jobs in the future.

I'm not making any judgement of the man as we don't know enough. Drugs in his system doesn't mean high while teaching. He could have been shooting up heroin very morning. He could have had a joint every other Friday evening. He could have had prescribed drugs and the school fired as a knee jerk reaction before that was revealed. We don't know, but we do know is that op is scum.

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  • JustGotIllustrator
  • -27 Points
  • 15:32:55, 10 March

She knew because she is not an idiot and she knew he was a primitive minded neanderthal, who cant control themselves, int terms of drugs, and judging by that also probably in terms of women. I am sorry I dont want my kid being taught my a FUCKING CRACKHEAD. Op, keep doing what you are doing, regardless of what these misogynist shitlords deem as their corrupt version of justice.

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  • Nema_K
  • 4 Points
  • 15:53:14, 10 March

"...it turns out that he did have drugs in his system while teaching"

Had she known before-hand that he was still doing drugs, she would not have included this line. There could have been plenty of other ways of dealing with this situation instead of making claims of rape with no evidence.(the drug claim was true but she had no evidence to make the claim in the first place)

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  • JustGotIllustrator
  • -13 Points
  • 15:57:55, 10 March

true, she could have said the truth and gotten nowhere. This is why we have to exaggerate, because if we dont nobody fucking cares, and in this case it ended marvelously.

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  • babno
  • 1 Points
  • 16:38:58, 10 March

83% sure it's troll and the remaining 17% is you really are that sexist. Either way you are hilarious.

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  • Senou
  • 7 Points
  • 15:32:26, 10 March

You...You do realise that drugs don't vanish from the system the moment you stop being high, right?

...Right?

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  • bananaconcoction
  • 3 Points
  • 16:10:37, 10 March

The drug usage is irrelevant to his teaching capabilities. I knew a high school teacher of mine on a personal level who smoked pot and everyone agreed that his teaching was way better than the rest of the staff regardless of his usage.

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  • hreilly80
  • 6 Points
  • 15:11:15, 10 March

really?

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  • Le4chanFTW
  • 41 Points
  • 05:08:40, 10 March

There's normal-people revenge, which through some emotional reasoning can usually be "justified", and then there's a complete psychopath making it their life's goal to ruin someone and their well-being over what can only be extrapolated to be jealousy (u mad he cited you as a bad influence, you filthy drug addict?). Rest assured, OP, if Hell does exist, there's a special circle of it filled with the type of human filth you so proudly self-identify as.

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  • arkindal
  • 39 Points
  • 07:33:52, 10 March

This Mike dude sure was a total dick and an asshole.
15 years ago.
He might be a very good guy now.
You? Maybe you were nice and supportive 15 years ago.
But you sure are a total bitch now.
EDIT:
Also, it doesn't even mean a shit if this subreddit is about revenge, sometimes revenge is ok, if someone ruined your life NOW and you got to get some kind of revenge NOW it would make sense, but you ruined someone's life after 15 years and for as much as you know he could be a different person now.

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  • hreilly80
  • 19 Points
  • 07:51:19, 10 March

also cute how she talks about his "personal unresolved vendetta" against her... from fifteen years ago.. causing all these problems. i would LOVE to hear his side of he story.

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  • arkindal
  • 12 Points
  • 07:53:42, 10 March

It's a shame she didn't use her real account. I'm not surprised she didn't tho, she probably actually know what a horrible person she is.

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  • hreilly80
  • 12 Points
  • 07:56:06, 10 March

she acts as if she's so proud, yet she uses a throwaway? mmmhmm..

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  • arkindal
  • 10 Points
  • 08:01:57, 10 March

Meh, I hope someone from 15 years ago get to ruin her own business.
And I hope the guy can get to get back on his feet.

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  • hreilly80
  • 7 Points
  • 08:03:02, 10 March

absolutely. poor man. who hasn't been a total fuckass in a breakup?

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  • arkindal
  • 6 Points
  • 08:05:18, 10 March

I was goin to say "Well, I didn't..." but then I remembered that I did once, so I guess we all do that at least once. Unless someone is a very very good person.
Or a very introverted pushover.

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  • hreilly80
  • 8 Points
  • 08:34:50, 10 March

im sure you had your reasons, logical at the time or not, and aren't going to wait umpteen years to retaliate with 100X worse actions than were put upon you. :)

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  • arkindal
  • 5 Points
  • 08:37:17, 10 March

That would be childish like someone we know.
No, well, OP weren't childish. Just a total bitch.

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  • leachigan
  • 180 Points
  • 21:37:46, 9 March

a) fifteen years later b) sexual accusations vs rumours

I think someone never left high school.

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  • bigassbertha
  • 62 Points
  • 07:51:32, 10 March

This.

Seriously. Grow the fuck up.

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  • theBCSsucks
  • 107 Points
  • 02:43:49, 10 March

You held a grudge for 15 years against an asshole you dated for 3 weeks in college, fabricated statutory rape charges against him, and got the man fired because he had probably smoked a joint. Either you're a very talented troll or a raging hatchet gash of a woman. With great power comes a modicum of responsibility.

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  • ProtestedGyro
  • 97 Points
  • 21:05:08, 9 March

Eh. Revenge is much sweeter when you have the truth on your side. All the bullshit about having a relationship with a student was a little much when you could have just stuck with the drug accusation. False sexual accusations can seriously fuck up people's lives.

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  • MMistro
  • 47 Points
  • 21:35:24, 9 March

I'd have to agree with this. While the drug accusations are more an eye for an eye kinda thing, false sexual accusations are a pretty damn horrible thing to do.

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  • The_Vizier
  • 28 Points
  • 23:15:18, 9 March

sometimes people confuse /r/pettyrevenge and /r/ProRevenge

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  • aXenoWhat
  • 10 Points
  • 10:50:12, 10 March

Yeah, uh... that is beyond the pale. There are two crimes that are extremely heinous mainly because they stem from pettiness and have horrific effects on the subject:

  • false accusations of sex crimes (and this counts)
  • blaming or demeaning victims of sex crimes

I can relate to murderers more than I can relate to someone who knowingly makes a false accusation of rape, or who adds to the misery of a rape victim by branding her (or him) a "slut".

OP, you are scum. How are you going to undo the damage your spiteful tongue has wrought on a blameless person? "He's not blameless. He spread that I was on drugs while I was in college." Boo hoo. Dial in a bit of middle-class sex-predator fear? Why don't you write for the tabloids, you fuck.

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  • UST3DES
  • 41 Points
  • 23:58:12, 9 March

God i hope this is made up. If not, then you really need to take a look at your life. This seriously makes you a bad person.

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  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -82 Points
  • 00:21:31, 10 March

Not made up. This isn't even the worst, I'm glad I posted something tame. Maybe you should go back to Disneyland if you think this makes someone a bad person.

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  • GrampappyJoe
  • 20 Points
  • 06:54:19, 10 March

I would love to see some of the untame stories you have, since you've already set the bar pretty low as far as being a human being goes. Did you drown a neighbor's child because they pushed you down on the playground in elementary school?

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  • UST3DES
  • 34 Points
  • 00:37:33, 10 March

Last time i checked i lived in the real world where ruining someone's life over 15 year old insults makes you an awful person.

  • [-]
  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -64 Points
  • 00:50:00, 10 March

Really? So he can try to ruin my reputation/take my friends/try to get me thrown out of places and generally be an asshat and I should just let him live his life? Maybe he should have let me live mine.

If you're so well-morally adjusted then he's just as awful a person and deserved exactly what he got.

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  • ButterGhost
  • 36 Points
  • 01:59:09, 10 March

Pretty much. How about acting like an adult? You come off as classless trash.

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  • Blemish
  • 28 Points
  • 04:12:41, 10 March

A classless immature spoilt brat.

Stuck in the past ...15 years ago.

Maybe she just failed in life, and wanted a pity party with the Chemistry teacher

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  • unkleman
  • 22 Points
  • 05:07:54, 10 March

You ruined a mans life over a bullshit school feud 15 years ago. Kids talk shit, too bad you never grew up. I hope he takes something sweet you value so instead of your sociopathic good feeling you have over this is filled with pain and grief over your loss.

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  • technicolournurd
  • 9 Points
  • 11:48:02, 10 March

So at what point did he make you lose your job?

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  • TracyMorganFreeman
  • 5 Points
  • 14:40:53, 10 March

When did hurt feelings and social inconvenience equate to ruining a person's career?

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  • Sean360H
  • 2 Points
  • 16:00:57, 10 March

A rape allegation is not a good thing to do to anybody because they called you names. Are you fucking five you ruined his life totally because you didn't give him a wide birth. In fact this is a situation where you should be locked up for a while you are clearly not mature enough to be a stable and responsible adult.

And you have worse story's I would love to hear those because if thats a tame story then you are truly an evil bitch.

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  • Cthulusbaby
  • 8 Points
  • 08:59:22, 10 March

So you're a sociopath. You live your life trying to get revenge on people, even for things that happened when you were both youths. You don't know what he's been doing with his life for the last 15 years, but if this is a "tame" story then it sure as hell can't be any worse than what you've been up to.

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  • Southpaw_xi
  • 4 Points
  • 14:19:21, 10 March

Confess now.

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  • PantheraAtrox
  • 12 Points
  • 08:29:20, 10 March

Yeah, you're crazy, bitch. I hope this gets found.

  • [-]
  • JabCross
  • 11 Points
  • 09:45:46, 10 March

This is why men's rights are so important. A false accusation shouldn't be able to ruin a man's life.

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  • ChrisRandom
  • 17 Points
  • 01:47:54, 10 March

While it was wrong of him to teach while under the influence, I think you come off as the asshole here for trying to ruin his life because he said some mean things to you.

In teaching, word of mouth of being a pedophile can ruin someone even without any proof.

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  • Draziil
  • 2 Points
  • 13:54:33, 10 March

He wasn't even "under the influence" while teaching. She just said he had drugs in his system, which could mean several days or even weeks in between uses.

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  • Tristan79
  • 11 Points
  • 04:53:58, 10 March

Wow, both people seem like really shitty people that I'm glad I don't know. Two wrongs don't make a right, what a horrible thing to do to somebody over a two week relationship 15 years old and some shit talking.

Nothing like an awful immoral criminal career ruining lie to prove him wrong about you being a bad influence.

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  • StarFscker
  • 10 Points
  • 08:06:59, 10 March

You are the problem in the world, and I hope you meet a just come-uppance. You are the type of person people extract proper revenge upon.

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  • knicksfan21
  • 10 Points
  • 08:08:03, 10 March

wow, grow the fuck up. Sounds like you are the loser seeing as you are still acting like a 16 year old.

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  • MrMischief0220
  • 26 Points
  • 23:28:16, 9 March

You seriously let this eat at you for 15 years?

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  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -52 Points
  • 00:20:55, 10 March

Nope, it just kind of fell into my lap. I'd honestly forgotten about him until a friend brought it up.

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  • MrMischief0220
  • 18 Points
  • 00:32:17, 10 March

I'm having a hard time understanding why you wouldn't let it go. I mean, you'd forgotten about it up until that point. What changed?

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  • Halfawake
  • 7 Points
  • 01:30:16, 10 March

George Elliot mentioned this in her book "Mill on the Floss"

It's a human thing, to let go and forget an offense, but suddenly remember it when you can take revenge at an opportune, easy moment in the future. Thats what happened here.

If OP hadn't let go, she would have been stalking him over the years. Instead, this was a twist of fate.

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  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -41 Points
  • 00:56:05, 10 March

Yes, I had forgotten about it. Then someone brought him up, then more people were talking about what a GREAT guy he was and I decided to clue them in.

Hell, he spent a great deal of time trying to ruin my reputation and I had this glaring opportunity to do the same to him. I wouldn't have been able to live with myself if I didn't take the chance and damn, did it work!

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  • GrampappyJoe
  • 16 Points
  • 06:51:05, 10 March

So he turned his life around and was a great person, and you decided to try to completely ruin his life because of some petty things 15 years ago? Cool. That's rational thinking of a person who's clearly not mentally unstable.

If you had said he used to have drug and alcohol problems that would be way less awful than saying he does have a drug and alcohol problem, and is dating a student who would more than likely be a minor, resulting in prison time and a lifetime on the sex offender list.

  • [-]
  • MrMischief0220
  • 10 Points
  • 05:26:10, 10 March

You WERE living with yourself just fine.

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  • Vexercist
  • 5 Points
  • 05:43:19, 10 March

Allegedly.

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  • yokiatsu
  • 4 Points
  • 13:23:33, 10 March

"Clue them in." >False rape accusation.

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  • Senou
  • 3 Points
  • 13:23:25, 10 March

"A great deal of time"

20 days isn't a great deal of time, you fucking lunatic.

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  • yokiatsu
  • 5 Points
  • 13:22:24, 10 March

>Honestly forgot about it. >Reminded of it, decides to ruin life.

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  • Cthulusbaby
  • 8 Points
  • 09:05:33, 10 March

If OP lied about this guy sleeping with a minor, we've got no reason to believe that anything she has written about him is true. Somehow I doubt that OP was really the fantastic and supportive girlfriend she makes herself out to be. I would love to hear his side of the story.

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  • the_shakeweight
  • 10 Points
  • 10:37:48, 10 March

You're the absolute worst kind of human being. Not only is this not revenge, because he did nothing wrong other than want a clean break you fucking psycho. He is a god damn teacher, you have effectively ruined his life.

I hope worse happens to you, because after all that has happened to this poor guy, you deserve it ten-fold. Big deal, you smoked weed and he made fun of you for it? Fuck off you immature twat. You're the shittiest person alive.

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  • DuncanGilbert
  • 7 Points
  • 09:36:04, 10 March

This is fucked up.

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  • ads215
  • 65 Points
  • 21:29:40, 9 March

So, instead of being the bigger, more mature, more grounded and moral person you decided to go for the kill shot, turning yourself immediately into one of the most ruthless, ignorant, and stupid bitches ever. 15 fucking years later and you're not over it?

There is not ONE doubt in my mind you have earned yourself some seriously fucked up karma for doing this. While I totally understand your being upset about his idiocy back then, for you to do what you did is unconscionable. If you did it only out of caring for the students, that's one thing, but you know damn well you did it only to feed what must be a very large black spot on a very tiny heart.

Be proud.

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  • PromethiumX
  • 14 Points
  • 09:23:36, 10 March

15 yrs later to a guy she knew for 20 days.

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  • kakashi1814
  • 25 Points
  • 22:24:13, 9 March

I don't like seeing someone ruin another persons life over this shit. Makes me sick.

  • [-]
  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -79 Points
  • 00:23:22, 10 March

So him trying to spread lies about me and ruin my reputation is fine but when I do it to him it's not?

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  • kakashi1814
  • 25 Points
  • 01:48:37, 10 March

Are you stuck in high school?

You think your actions are justified because you held on to a petty grudge for years. Your reputation came back, did it not? Learn to let things go.

I am not excusing anything he did. I'm not going to excuse your actions either.

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  • hreilly80
  • 16 Points
  • 02:09:23, 10 March

you coming back 15 years later and ruining his freaking career because he was a douche and you went though an irritating breakup back in college when he was likely still fucked up from drugs is a little on the excessive side..... tad bit psychopathic.

someone talks shit about their ex, people take it with a grain of salt, as you somewhat indicated his friends were doing back in the day by telling him to shut the fuck up. a teacher gets fired for drug use and suspected sexual abuse? there are records that follow teachers around, they can't just go get another job like anyone else.

sure, they found drugs in his system, but what drugs? are ANY "ok?" no, not really.. but you didn't even know they were there. you just got lucky. you were essentially lying, which yes - he did about you, FIFTEEN YEARS AGO IN COLLEGE. yeah, he was a douche bag, but come on... you've got to understand that people can change in fifteen years, even if you can't. i know you forgot about it, but then when reminded, you pull this shit? they is FAR FROM PRO, this is PETTY as best.

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  • snagglefoof
  • 29 Points
  • 00:46:39, 10 March

No, it's not. Trying to get him fired, fine. I think we can handle that. But you lied about sexual relations with minors, which is not okay.

I'm sure it was awful to be in that situation, though. So for that, I'm sorry.

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  • Halfawake
  • 2 Points
  • 01:27:11, 10 March

Yeah, first I think you did some serious revenge, about as serious as hit and running him with your car assuming he didn't get paralyzed.

But I don't think people here are giving credence to how seriously someone can fuck up your life by messing with your reputation. It can be just as bad as losing your job as an adult, if not worse, because it can fuck up all the opportunities you have as a kid and derail your life. Don't be quick to pass judgment, especially online where facts are hard to come by.

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  • Brachial
  • -18 Points
  • 22:59:14, 9 March

I don't understand why people go to revenge based subreddits and then gets mad at the person for achieving revenge.

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  • ads215
  • 19 Points
  • 23:12:35, 9 March

Because just as there are certain levels of appropriate violence there are levels of revenge. Certain acts call for certain levels. When you decided to, say, kill a fly with fly swatter that's one thing, but if you decide to detonate a nuclear weapon there's wayyyyyyy too much unnecessary damage and you end up hurting yourself as much if not more than the fly.

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  • Brachial
  • -9 Points
  • 23:16:18, 9 March

I know what you mean and I think she did over kill it too, but she did get her revenge which is what r/prorevenge is. Revenge is never something that gets one 'good' karma.

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  • abdomino
  • 6 Points
  • 08:53:25, 10 March

Just because someone is pro-gun rights doesn't mean they think that everyone should be allowed a gun, merely that the default position is "allowed", unless factors such as mental incompetence and criminal history come into play.

I think accusations about statutory rape count as "unless".

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  • ads215
  • 4 Points
  • 00:17:36, 10 March

I hear you but not sure I agree. I believe there are times revenge can take the form of a lesson if it's proportionate.

But, sure this is "r/prorevenge," so does that mean if one has an opinion about a post it shouldn't' be posted here?

  • [-]
  • Brachial
  • -2 Points
  • 03:55:50, 10 March

No, but it isn't the right place to tell someone that they should've been the more mature person in a place dedicated to revenge.

  • [-]
  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -53 Points
  • 00:20:23, 10 March

Thank you. I posted here because there's been complaining about all the crossposts from /rpettyrevenge and wanted some original content. Obviously some people are too sensitive for this subreddit.

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  • hreilly80
  • 15 Points
  • 07:53:48, 10 March

no, i think you're just an asshole.

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  • phukka
  • 26 Points
  • 06:14:56, 10 March

No, I think some people just don't support deplorable cunts that should be put down.

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  • Bohica69
  • 8 Points
  • 15:06:24, 10 March

Sensitive, no. Your actions were way out of proportion with reality, you fat cunt.

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  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -65 Points
  • 00:18:42, 10 March

"Being the bigger person" is just jargon for being a doormat. I assume you turn the other cheek every time? Never hold a grudge? Are always the "better person"? Just keep bending over and letting people do whatever they want to you.

If I believed in karma then it seems that he would have just gotten his and I would be breaking even. He tried to ruin my good name & take my friends, then walk away like he's done nothing. I did the same but obviously did it better and smarter.

I am quite proud. Thank you!

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  • ads215
  • 24 Points
  • 00:35:18, 10 March

Nicely done. You added 2 and 2 and came up with 5.

Did I say anything about being a doormat? Show me where, c'mon, show me. Read my lips: I'm talking about a proportionate and timely response. You escalated way above what was reasonable by any logical measure. And you can pretend to be proud but in your private, quiet moments on those nights you wake up and can't go back to sleep, you KNOW you fucked up.

And, according to you, apparently every master from Jesus to Ghandi was a doormat. Do the world a favor, don't have any kids.

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  • Blemish
  • 11 Points
  • 04:10:51, 10 March

nicely said.

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  • mahrevengethrowaway
  • -54 Points
  • 00:46:22, 10 March

And you added 2 and 2 and came up with 10.

So you're the great decision maker that judges what is an "appropriate" and "non-appropriate" response? Did you go to school for that? Has someone appointed you The Judge? No? Then your opinion of what's right has just as much validity as mine.

As soon as you entered into the "be a bigger person" programming, you stated doormat. "A Bigger Person" and "More Mature" is jargon to maintain false morality, but it doesn't work for me. I loved your extreme use of references to Jesus Christ and Ghandi - one is an imaginary character and the other is defintely a doormat.

In my quiet private moments, I look inside and feel good with myself. I don't let people push me around. Thinking about his name in the paper puts a smile on my face and I sleep very very soundly, it gives me peace.

Some people have different moral values than you, get over it. If you ever have kids, I hope you get one that challenges your views.

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  • kakashi1814
  • 27 Points
  • 01:50:54, 10 March

If you feel so damn good about yourself then why did you use a throwaway?

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  • Cthulusbaby
  • 13 Points
  • 09:03:00, 10 March

I would also like to know this. If what you did is so moral and you believe in it so much, why not use your regular account?

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  • ads215
  • 17 Points
  • 00:49:09, 10 March

You're exactly the person no one should be taking lessons from on anything, and certainly not morality.

You can have the last word, go to it.

Edit: Just wanted to say my children are already grown, but if any of them had ever done what you did I would have been tremendously disappointed in them. The reason you can't see that is one reason our culture has been degraded to an almost unrecognizable point.

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  • PromethiumX
  • 8 Points
  • 09:26:37, 10 March

Wow you're fucked up

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  • TheFarnell
  • 6 Points
  • 14:55:14, 10 March

If what you did seriously makes you feel good, you're a psychopath.

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  • Bohica69
  • 5 Points
  • 15:08:59, 10 March

Honey, you're a fat fucking cunt of a bitch who was slighted when you were an adolescent and now you make a mission to ruin someones life. You're pathetic, unfuckable, fat and stupid. Grow up.

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  • TracyMorganFreeman
  • 4 Points
  • 14:45:12, 10 March

>"Being the bigger person" is just jargon for being a doormat. I assume you turn the other cheek every time? Never hold a grudge? Are always the "better person"? Just keep bending over and letting people do whatever they want to you.

Because there are only two ways to approach things? You couldn't have talked to him and brought up how he hurt you when you were younger and make him understand?

It's only stay nothing or knife in the back with you?

>If I believed in karma then it seems that he would have just gotten his and I would be breaking even

How the hell do you know what he went through over those 15 years? Do you really judge life in simplistic snapshots?

> He tried to ruin my good name & take my friends, then walk away like he's done nothing.

Oh please. In high school your name doesn't mean anything whether it's in the mud or the clouds.

> I did the same but obviously did it better and smarter.

If you have to lie to accomplish your ends, you're not actually smarter. In fact, you're just lazier and shittier.

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  • phukka
  • 10 Points
  • 06:16:50, 10 March

Please don't have kids. Please.

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  • ButterGhost
  • 16 Points
  • 02:02:37, 10 March

I wonder how people would feel if the sexes were switched? Imagine a guy doing this to an ex 15 years after the fact and ruining her teaching career? People would call that guy a psychopath.

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  • hreilly80
  • 33 Points
  • 02:14:39, 10 March

i call this girl a psychopath.

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  • Blemish
  • 6 Points
  • 04:13:57, 10 March

I would call this guy an asshole.

Ps: From personal experiences women tend to hold grudges over very simple things, which men just ignore and get over.

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  • hreilly80
  • 5 Points
  • 08:01:25, 10 March

stereotypically, sure, maybe... however, acting out in such a batshit crazy ass way is far from "typical cray cray woman" ways... and this is coming from a woman.

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  • Blemish
  • 4 Points
  • 13:02:20, 10 March

lol... yeah you have a point.

the worst part is the lunatic vehemently defends her actions

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  • Anq
  • 5 Points
  • 11:17:30, 10 March

Wow. You sound like more of a loser than he ever was.

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  • JulioLemongrab
  • 5 Points
  • 12:27:28, 10 March

You're a fucking bitch.

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  • OuiCrudites
  • 5 Points
  • 12:40:27, 10 March

Hideous monsters like you are increasing the plight of actual rape victims and causing men to instinctively distrust all women.

Congratulate yourself.

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  • dusthoof
  • 5 Points
  • 12:47:48, 10 March

Shame on you

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  • Bombadildo1
  • 6 Points
  • 13:11:31, 10 March

I don't say this very often but you are a bad person.

For the first few paragraphs I was fine with your side of the story and just took what you were saying as is but after you were such a terrible person to someone who is trying to straighten his life out I am going to assume that most of what he said about you 15 years ago was probably true and you don't want to admit it. This is sociopath level stuff.

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  • dooit
  • 6 Points
  • 14:07:11, 10 March

Your a POS. How would you like it if someone destroyed your buisness you mentioned? Because that's what you did to that guy for something you should've been able to brush off.

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  • Faygzee
  • 6 Points
  • 14:19:30, 10 March

You look like a good first victim of my urges to behead people

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  • realgraverobber
  • 6 Points
  • 14:31:49, 10 March

Women like this keep women disrespected in our society. No one really take ladies seriously due to hysterics like they do too often. Nice job for ruining someones life.

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  • AtheistAgnostic
  • 5 Points
  • 14:44:34, 10 March

>He did drugs, I hated that. Only I'M allowed to do drugs

FTFY

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  • Todmoyler
  • 6 Points
  • 15:05:24, 10 March

You're a sociopath.

Honestly, why didn't you just grow up and move on?

Instead you ruined this man's life.. because you are so petty.

You are a disgrace to the human race ,honestly.

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  • Little_Baby_Jesus
  • 5 Points
  • 15:39:38, 10 March

No wonder he left your crazy ass. You **ARE* a bad influence a bad person.

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  • Schaftschwager
  • 5 Points
  • 12:37:32, 10 March

You over reacted in entirely the wrong way and took it way too far. Very womanly of you, but you're still a piece of shit.

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  • Senou
  • 4 Points
  • 13:16:06, 10 March

Wow, fuck you.

You really need some perspective.

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  • yokiatsu
  • 5 Points
  • 13:25:15, 10 March

Wow you're a piece of SHIT. Grow up.

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  • prostateExamination
  • 5 Points
  • 13:28:15, 10 March

i hope you hate yourself

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  • nc863id
  • 4 Points
  • 13:33:37, 10 March

So not only are you a liar and a petty vindictive bitch, but you're also a coward.

Congratulations.

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  • pavester
  • 8 Points
  • 06:45:22, 10 March

Typical woman letting emotions take over her actions. "Oh no he said bad stuff about you" " ill use my female trustworthyness and make up shit about him. Ill tell him he does drugs and bangs students. " " totally simple revenge and not activily trying to ruin some dudes life"

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  • dubitabam
  • 2 Points
  • 13:25:10, 10 March

This didn't happen.

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  • roharareddit
  • 4 Points
  • 13:26:19, 10 March

I would very much like to hear this guy's side of the story about how you all broke up 15 years ago.

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  • SentientWinter
  • 4 Points
  • 15:47:53, 10 March

Well, that's fucking justified. /s

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  • jyiannako
  • 3 Points
  • 16:07:32, 10 March

"finds out" Mike is a Chemistry teacher at local high school.

definitely stalker

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  • swuuggle
  • 5 Points
  • 14:30:24, 10 March

I legitimately think you should consider suicide for what you did.

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  • rj20876
  • 3 Points
  • 12:35:45, 10 March

A. He is a dick. B. You are much more of an immature cunt. People like you are the reason I dont immediately jumo to the conclusion that all car accidents are bad.

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  • TheHomeWrecker
  • 4 Points
  • 15:38:10, 10 March

whore.

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  • Bohica69
  • 3 Points
  • 15:04:28, 10 March

Honey, you need to move on and quit being a vindictive, fat, angry cunt. Life is too short. Your justifications are nonsense. You were wong, period, end of story, full stop. Remember, cut the long way next time. Lol

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  • mattius1337
  • 2 Points
  • 14:33:05, 10 March

Get this crap out of MR. It does nothing except show how petty as a person you are.

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  • Revoran
  • 1 Points
  • 16:37:17, 10 March

So wait let me get this straight...

  1. In high school, your ex boyfriend is a dick to you. Nothing too serious. He talks shit behind your back but whatever - that's high school for you.

  2. 15 years later you decide to ruin his life by making completely false accusations about him. You cost him his career and his reputation (and possibly his freedom?).

Wow. Just fucking wow.

This wasn't revenge, it was just you being an immature cunt. You should be ashamed.

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  • liquid_j
  • 1 Points
  • 16:39:06, 10 March

Wow... Sociopath much?

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  • cdimmick94
  • 1 Points
  • 16:45:12, 10 March

Reading OP comments makes me think of a few other women I have met who liked to ruin a mans reputation after a stupid incident like this one. It makes me so angry that women have the right to ruin a mans life with a false claim. It really is the most bull shit thing I have ever heard.

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  • hyrusekki
  • 0 Points
  • 22:06:13, 9 March

It sounds like Mike had a case of AA righteousness. I've had mates go that route and it makes me want to punch them in the head, no wonder it irked you!

That being said, I'm torn. The revenge seems extreme but this is r/prorevenge and you did give us a tale of prorevenge.

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  • pleione82
  • -23 Points
  • 22:04:32, 9 March

I was going to say this was a bit extreme since it has been 15 years... until I came to the part where he did have drugs in his system. Nice.

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  • Rolten
  • 0 Points
  • 16:04:31, 10 March

Might as well have been from smoking weed.

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  • Thomasgetajob
  • -39 Points
  • 21:42:37, 9 March

I love this kind of revenge, I really do. What goes around comes around, big time.

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  • Le4chanFTW
  • 7 Points
  • 05:10:10, 10 March

my fist would come around to your gabber if you ever said something like this to me in person, m8.

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  • ButterGhost
  • -20 Points
  • 02:23:59, 10 March

Upset people, UPVOTE for pure visibility! It's a small world after all...

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  • MrFace1
  • -34 Points
  • 23:42:10, 9 March

ITT: People complaining despite the fact that this subreddit is dedicated to revenge.

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  • Cthulusbaby
  • 8 Points
  • 09:07:46, 10 March

Doesn't it matter whether the revenge is justified or not?

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  • MrFace1
  • -1 Points
  • 16:20:05, 10 March

Revenge in general isn't "justified".