Someone on askreddit tells the story of how she almost got raped. Other users blame her. (np.reddit.com)

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228 ups - 83 downs = 145 votes

248 comments submitted at 14:57:43 on Mar 5, 2014 by 6086555

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  • The_YoungWolf
  • 52 Points
  • 15:32:52, 5 March

It's a bit disturbing to me that these kinds of people can't seem to understand how basic human decency works. There's a bit of a fallacy in the statement "You were alone in a dark area with a drunk guy? OF COURSE you're gonna get raped" when 95% of men would probably just be chatting with them or something instead of violently attempting to grope them. It makes me think that "Alone with drunk girl in dark area at party? IT'S RAPING TIME" is their default train of thought. Very scary.

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -70 Points
  • 15:58:44, 5 March

> basic human decency

You mean not ending up alone with a drunk guy in the backyard when you have a boyfriend?

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  • The_YoungWolf
  • 40 Points
  • 16:19:59, 5 March

I'm alone with other guys' drunk girlfriends all the time. I don't sexually assault them

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -44 Points
  • 16:26:26, 5 March

That's good on you. What does that have to do with my post?

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  • The_YoungWolf
  • 35 Points
  • 16:30:37, 5 March

That it's not abnormal or provocative for a girl to be alone with other guys

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -49 Points
  • 16:32:24, 5 March

Why don't you just state that instead of handing me your nice guy card?

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  • DemonicBtch
  • 52 Points
  • 16:35:49, 5 March

The fact that you call that "nice guy" behavior speaks volumes.

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  • freedomweasel
  • 48 Points
  • 16:52:09, 5 March

GGG, doesn't rape people.

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  • Vitsika
  • 3 Points
  • 21:30:00, 5 March

Settin' the bar high.

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  • Will_Im_Not
  • 4 Points
  • 20:51:32, 5 March

I've literally seen that kind of post on /r/AdviceAnimals.

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  • leaffall
  • 17 Points
  • 16:45:34, 5 March

You know, when I read it I subconsciously gave it the benefit of the doubt and remembered "I don't sexually assault" as "I don't make a move on them". I was thinking he was just being a jerk for saying only nice guys don't hit on drunk girls in relationships, but damn, he really did just say it's nice guy behavior to not sexually assault folks.

Holy shit.

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -29 Points
  • 16:53:00, 5 March

LOL that is how you guys read that. Geez. Have you ever felt the need to state unasked "I don't sexually assault them". Ever?

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  • The_YoungWolf
  • 12 Points
  • 16:35:32, 5 March

I'm using my own personal experience as an example of normal human behavior.

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -43 Points
  • 16:46:24, 5 March

In this moment, I am euphoric. Not because of any phony girl’s blessing. But because, I am enlightened by my normal human behavior.

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  • soixante_douze
  • 12 Points
  • 16:53:12, 5 March

Point taken, you can go home now.

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  • DblackRabbit
  • 17 Points
  • 17:31:38, 5 March

Not really normal behavior to think alone + drunk = sex....thats kinda paranoid....

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  • WatchEachOtherSleep
  • 11 Points
  • 18:32:50, 5 March

Or predatory...

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  • The_YoungWolf
  • 14 Points
  • 16:49:32, 5 March

I sure am. It's why I enjoy being a nice, decent person

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  • ArkayPhelps
  • 10 Points
  • 16:51:28, 5 March

Well aren't you just a cheeky little rascal.

Seriously though dude, you're comments here are pretty fucking stupid.

Please continue.

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -26 Points
  • 16:55:14, 5 March

> you're comments here are pretty fucking stupid.

My pleasure.

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  • Alexispinpgh
  • 12 Points
  • 16:22:36, 5 March

Oh okay so you are just a gross person. Got it.

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  • DemonicBtch
  • 40 Points
  • 16:04:02, 5 March

Yes, cordially interacting with people of the opposite sex while someone else's property makes you a bad person.

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  • Zideburnz
  • 17 Points
  • 18:03:56, 5 March

You misunderstand them. It wasn't being alone with the drunk guy part. It was being in the backyard part. The lawn was very delicate.

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  • Anemoni
  • 5 Points
  • 20:14:11, 5 March

Check your non-grass privilege, shitlord.

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -49 Points
  • 16:30:10, 5 March

thesaurus + girlfriend = property and that gets upvotes. Amazing.

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  • Mitoza
  • 28 Points
  • 16:35:19, 5 March

You might be an idiot if you need a thesaurus to use the word "cordially"

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  • Thalia_and_Melpomene
  • 1 Points
  • 21:58:57, 5 March

I honestly think the word he doesn't understand is "bad."

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  • cormega
  • 6 Points
  • 18:50:03, 5 March

He was clearly being sarcastic.

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  • Indignantary
  • 1 Points
  • 21:45:43, 5 March

Any time anyone looks stupid, the people saying they're stupid are actually the stupid ones for failing to pick up on the humor, which totally exists and isn't a defense mechanism to avoid dealing with criticism.

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  • PyreDruid
  • 14 Points
  • 16:03:14, 5 March

Please be sarcasm. Please be sarcasm. Please be sarcasm.

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  • IAMA_dragon-AMA
  • 1 Points
  • 20:04:04, 5 March

If it's sarcasm, he's awfully thorough.

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  • beanfiddler
  • 13 Points
  • 16:53:26, 5 March

Let me guess, you would not say the same thing about a man who interacts with women other than his girlfriend on a daily basis.

I mean, he's basically begging to be raped. What did he think would happen?

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  • lost_my_pw_again
  • -25 Points
  • 16:57:52, 5 March

> I mean, he's basically begging to be raped. What did he think would happen?

That's not what I'm saying at all. But I'm sure that is what the crowd here is reading into it.

If a guy with a girlfriend ends up alone in the backyard with a drunk girl I would question his "basic human decency". So yes, I would state exactly the same.

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  • cormega
  • 9 Points
  • 18:53:24, 5 March

Are you autistic or something? People can interact with other people while in relationships. Yes, even alone. Yes, even with the opposite sex.

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  • cbslurp
  • 17 Points
  • 17:36:13, 5 March

now i'm wondering if you've ever been to a house party

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  • cocaineseemsfun
  • 6 Points
  • 19:38:23, 5 March

I'm wondering if he's ever had any kind of human interaction outside of reddit.

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  • IAMA_dragon-AMA
  • 4 Points
  • 20:05:06, 5 March

That depends on whether or not 4chan counts. He seems about that level of edgy.

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  • beanfiddler
  • 18 Points
  • 17:13:16, 5 March

You must hang out with really shitty people.

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  • Thalia_and_Melpomene
  • 1 Points
  • 22:07:56, 5 March

> If a guy with a girlfriend ends up alone in the backyard with a drunk girl I would question his "basic human decency".

What the fuck kind of medieval shit is this? Do you think she needs a chaperone or something? Or are you one of those guys who flies into a jealous rage whenever his girlfriend hangs out with guys who are not you?

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  • cbslurp
  • 8 Points
  • 17:31:57, 5 March

lol have you been in a relationship before? if so, how did that go?