/r/GirlGamers discusses whether to combat misogyny with misandry or neutrality. Bonus level: Can minorities be racist against white people? (np.reddit.com)

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385 ups - 173 downs = 212 votes

478 comments submitted at 13:12:09 on Mar 3, 2014 by IAMA_dragon-AMA

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  • quiquedont
  • 170 Points
  • 13:31:33, 3 March

Wow, I'm shocked that a majority of the people in the sub seem to be okay with misandry. They get angry if men stereotype or make fun of girl gamers but it's okay if they do the same to men? Some SRS members have to be apart of the sub. There is also a bit of bonus MRA drama in the thread.

Edit: Ugh, White Knights have infiltrated the sub

>Eh, I'm a guy who hangs around here to keep my privileged self in check.

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  • lorenzorye
  • -50 Points
  • 15:57:20, 3 March

Misandry isn't real, omg what is happening in SRD today.

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  • sp8der
  • 27 Points
  • 16:41:25, 3 March

it's as real as the misogyny you see everywhere, think on that one

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  • lorenzorye
  • -35 Points
  • 16:51:21, 3 March

Misogyny is backed by a power structure constructed specifically to restrict and oppress female expression and freedom.

Misandry doesn't posses this quality, therefore it doesn't real. Cishet.

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  • MilesBeyond250
  • 14 Points
  • 17:03:18, 3 March

I'm calling Poe on this one.

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  • [deleted]
  • 10 Points
  • 16:54:44, 3 March

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  • lorenzorye
  • -26 Points
  • 16:55:55, 3 March

I am a man.

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  • sp8der
  • 21 Points
  • 16:56:53, 3 March

internalised misandry, i see

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  • lorenzorye
  • -24 Points
  • 16:58:42, 3 March

What is that?

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  • sp8der
  • 20 Points
  • 17:02:48, 3 March

like white guilt but for gender

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  • lorenzorye
  • -18 Points
  • 17:03:16, 3 March

White guilt?

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  • friendlysoviet
  • 4 Points
  • 20:06:33, 3 March

You are mistaking institutional misogyny/misandry with vanilla misogny/misandry.

Its okay words are hard.

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  • FlapjackFreddie
  • 19 Points
  • 17:39:06, 3 March

"That bitch is a slut." - misogyny

"That virgin neckbears." - misandry

Why deny that it exists? It seems like most feminists acknowledge that the patriarchy harms men and women, so wouldn't it make sense that the negative impact for men would be called misandry?

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  • lorenzorye
  • -24 Points
  • 17:40:40, 3 March

Bitch and slut are backed by a history of male violence, virgin and neckbeard are not.

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  • FlapjackFreddie
  • 20 Points
  • 17:43:53, 3 March

I'll never understand why you'd require violence as part of the definition. It seems to be defined everywhere as the hatred of women. When did you guys pick up the violence requirement?

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  • lorenzorye
  • -23 Points
  • 17:49:56, 3 March

Hatred of women that has been ingrained in society by the violence of men.

It's really not difficult if you know how to critically think.

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  • FlapjackFreddie
  • 16 Points
  • 17:51:24, 3 March

My question is, when did you add the violence part? I can't find any real sources that require a history of violence in the definition.

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  • lorenzorye
  • -20 Points
  • 17:53:57, 3 March

Please be to reading.

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  • FlapjackFreddie
  • 14 Points
  • 17:56:37, 3 March

That's a whole pile of links that don't seem to address my specific question. Can you point to a source that talks about why a history of violence is required in misogyny?

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  • lorenzorye
  • -17 Points
  • 18:00:16, 3 March

You must read all to understand.

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  • ValiantPie
  • 5 Points
  • 18:50:03, 3 March

I love how these moments of clarity send the more recent parts of the userbase into panic mode.