Me[29M] and my wife[31F] of 3 years, sex life has been bad, and getting worse (self.relationships)
63 ups - 15 downs = 48 votes
So my wife and I have been together for 5 years, we have a 3 year old son. Sense we got together our sex life has been declining.
At first she was saying that I was pressuring her to much. So I stopped doing that.
Then I thought maybe she didn't find me attractive, so I started working out. I lost 40lbs and worked out alot.
She said that it was because I was prematurely ejaculating. Which I wasn't. Still I worked on my control and technique, now lets just say thats not an issue.
She won't talk to me about our sex life, and if I bring it up (very rarely) she will tell me that I am pressuring her. Or she will say that she wants more sex too, but then she has some excuse why not.
She is very jealous, very controlling, and constantly angry at me.
Right now our sex life is about 2x a month, but there are a couple times a year we wont have sex for several months.
Please help me figure out why this is happening. And how I should fix it.
tl;dr: My wife and I are not having sex and I have no idea why, or how to fix it.
66 comments submitted at 13:13:31 on Sep 5, 2013 by thinkingtodeep