"What the hell is up with TIL doing everything in their power to downplay male victims of domestic violence?" (np.reddit.com)

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166 comments submitted at 20:57:21 on Oct 28, 2014 by 75000_Tokkul

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 8 Points
  • 00:47:27, 29 October

Seems to me like they are the bullies

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  • totes_meta_bot
  • 2 Points
  • 03:40:17, 29 October

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  • dominique_shantel
  • -18 Points
  • 00:58:15, 29 October

I mean if you'r delusional I could see how you would view it that way. MRAs don't look very pitchforky in that video, seems the feminists are the problem

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWgslugtDow

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 13 Points
  • 01:05:24, 29 October

we aren't talking about feminists right now? Why are you bringing them up? I'm very confused.

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  • greenpapertiger
  • 16 Points
  • 01:11:48, 29 October

heheh, thats the MRA in a nutshell

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 10 Points
  • 01:13:14, 29 October

It's almost as if they have nothing legitimate to talk about so they just talk about feminism instead

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  • HostileIguana
  • -13 Points
  • 01:50:53, 29 October

>nothing legitimate to talk about >implying men have no real issues that deserve to be taken seriously >implying the MRM doesn't make any good points (even if they are misguided and mostly shot on feminism.)

ISHYGDDT

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 8 Points
  • 02:02:06, 29 October

The MRM helps on one. I think they are hurting men's rights and it really bothers me.

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  • greenpapertiger
  • 5 Points
  • 02:12:34, 29 October

I learned more about men's needs and struggles from studying feminism.

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  • HostileIguana
  • -4 Points
  • 02:10:46, 29 October

So why say that the MRM "has nothing legitimate to talk about"? You're saying that men don't face any issues at all, and that hurts men even more.

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  • Strich-9
  • 6 Points
  • 02:17:45, 29 October

men face issues. Those issues aren't addressed by the MRM. the MRM is about feminism. Which, ironically, does more to break gender roles and hence help men than MRM ever could.

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 5 Points
  • 02:20:32, 29 October

They don't talk about men's issues. They talk about straw feminism. Men in need deserve better than that bullshit.

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  • HostileIguana
  • -2 Points
  • 02:31:18, 29 October

>They don't talk about men's issues. They talk about straw feminism.

I know, and I agree, mostly. I think they do talk about men's issues, they just blame them all on feminism and say feminists don't give a shit about men's issues, which obviously not only helps nobody, but hurts everybody.

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  • dominique_shantel
  • -16 Points
  • 01:08:19, 29 October

Are you retarded? My point was they get bullied, who bullies them? Seems to be feminists at least in some circumstances

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 9 Points
  • 01:11:58, 29 October

The fact that you resort to ad hominem attacks so quickly is very interesting. Seems to me like you are the bully after all

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  • dominique_shantel
  • -11 Points
  • 01:18:47, 29 October

Take it how you want, i can't control if you're too delicate, but it was a serious question. You can just admit you're wrong instead of trying to change the subject

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  • penisflytrap1
  • 9 Points
  • 01:23:41, 29 October

Too delicate? Here is a tip. You might be taken more seriously next time if you don't randomly accuse people of having mental disorders or learning disabilities. Also you changed the subject.. you brought up feminism randomly lol

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  • dominique_shantel
  • -1 Points
  • 01:29:25, 29 October

> You might be taken more seriously next time if you don't randomly accuse people of having mental disorders or learning disabilities

You seem to fit the part based off your comments, e.g. lacking the ability to effectively communicate with others (explained more below). I get you're buthurt, coming to terms with a disorder can be tough, but your feelings don't change the fact that that you're wrong.

> Someone with intellectual disability has limitations in two areas. These areas are:

> Intellectual functioning. Also known as IQ, this refers to a person’s ability to learn, reason, make decisions, and solve problems. Adaptive behaviors. These are skills necessary for day-to-day life, such as being able to communicate effectively, interact with others, and take care of oneself.

Edit:

> Also you changed the subject.. you brought up feminism randomly lol

No, I did not. The topic was how MRAs get bullied. To go into how MRAs get bullied, the party doing the bullying would be relevant.

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  • Strich-9
  • 3 Points
  • 02:20:03, 29 October

>You seem to fit the part based off your comments, e.g. lacking the ability to effectively communicate with others (explained more below). I get you're buthurt, coming to terms with a disorder can be tough, but your feelings don't change the fact that that you're wrong.

Wow dude. You might want to stop and think about how you're reflecting on your movement. You are perhaps not the best messenger to send if you're this insulting, condescending and willing to ascribe mental disorders onto people you have no real knowledge of.

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  • Conflux
  • 7 Points
  • 02:49:56, 29 October

No no, he's generating popcorn!

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  • dominique_shantel
  • -1 Points
  • 03:21:23, 29 October

> your movement

The fuck are you talking about? I never claimed to be a part of any movement.

> ascribe mental disorders onto people you have no real knowledge of.

Just saying from what I have seen, they display the correct symptoms.

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  • tightdickplayer
  • 6 Points
  • 02:12:29, 29 October

hey look, it's that video of the time the mras went outside two years ago