/r/trashy debates whether your roommate is at fault if he sleeps with your girlfriend. (np.reddit.com)
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243 comments submitted at 14:55:54 on Oct 17, 2014 by Somenakedguy
/r/trashy debates whether your roommate is at fault if he sleeps with your girlfriend. (np.reddit.com)
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373 ups - 0 downs = 373 votes
243 comments submitted at 14:55:54 on Oct 17, 2014 by Somenakedguy
> it doesn't sit well with the entitled bitches and their white knights
please try reading my post this time around.
>Maybe it was wrong for me to dislike a woman making her own decisions and I was wrong for trying to tell her she could only sleep with me if she was going to be in a relationship with me.
I am a feminist. This is not a wrong thing to do. Monogamy is a perfectly ok thing to do and expect.
What you were experiencing is called "shitty people". They use any excuse they can to justify their shittiness.
This does not, however, make ALL women shitty people. I've similarly had quite a few relationships with women - and I have never been cheated on.
What you need to do is A) stop being bitter at all women and B) date outside the circle of people you are currently in. This will more likely than not fix your problem.
Having seven girlfriends cheat on you is EXTREMELY unusual.
It's not unusual when they are defended. I did read it. You still demand I revere and worship the almighty and flawless female. There is no benefit to trusting a woman. What you're telling me to do is stick my hand in a venomous snakes mouth and trusting it not to bite me because not all snakes are like that
Holy shit I've said these people were wrong and shitty like five times now, are you legit trolling? How much more directly do I need to state that people who cheat including the ones who cheated on you are pretty shitty?
I have no reason to trust that. It's just what women do and you're demanding I still give a woman the benefit of the doubt despite no reason to believe otherwise. I notice you flat ignored all the women who simply demanded I serve them and never felt any obligation to reciprocate. Never met a woman who didn't think that way
You realize I don't have enough information to comment on the good and bad people in every situation in your life, right? Of course I didn't go into detail about how bad the people you mentioned in passing as being bad were. I don't know you.
Seriously dude, I'm not saying this because I think you're sexist - but the way you've structured this conversation has made me think you have a really hard time seeing things from other people's point of view, and that kind of concerns me. You've repeatedly expected me to understand your life based on a couple of sentences, or in this case, one, you're refusing to listen to people who say you might be wrong, and you've ignored me even when I've agreed with you. These are the signs of someone who needs to communicate better - for your sake, I hope you work on that.
Of course it's my fault. I'm male. I have to see things from a woman's point of view because that's the only view that matters
If you were a woman I'd give you the exact same response.
I'm not sure what to say at this point - I'm saying you're at fault for making this conversation awful, not for getting cheated on. So, no, it's not your fault because you're male, it's your fault because this is a two person conversation and I think you are conducting yourself in a way that makes it really hard to talk to you.
No you wouldn't. You'd tell her to hold out for the perfect Prince Charming she is owed.
You are lecturing me about seeing things from another(meaning women) point of view while being incapable of doing the same. It's asinine. I'm expected to empathize with a creature that expects me to willingly serve them and expect nothing in return ever, else I'm an entitled Nice Guy^tm
Dude I'm telling you to see things from my perspective, not hers. This is what I am talking about when it come to not paying attention to what people are saying.
I THINK CHEATERS ARE BAD - I AM NO LONGER TALKING ABOUT HOW YOU SHOULD RESPOND TO THEM - IF SOMEONE CHEATS ON YOU, YOU SHOULD LEAVE THEM AND STOP INTERACTING WITH THAT PERSON