Whose team are we on anyway? (self.RedPillWomen)
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One of the risks of electronic communication is the tendency to hit send before thinking about what we write. It is an easy thing to go back and delete things written that we regret later. However in this case, I am not going to do so to make a point.
Last week a thread was begun asking what should be done if a high N woman is dating a man who may be considering marriage. How much should she tell. I was one if the commenters to advocate honesty, but I was rather Jesuitical about it.
And Manosphere blogger Donal Graeme called me out on it. http://donalgraeme.wordpress.com/2013/06/27/a-gross-indecency/
I will admit that I haven't read the whole thing. I didn't need to.
He asks a good question. Whose team are we playing for? If all our "strategies" only help Team Woman, are we any better than the PUAs using red pill knowledge to bang chicks?
We need to consider what is best for us. But we also need to consider what is best for the man in our life as well. That's what love is. Acting in the best interest of the beloved.
Based on that reminder I modify my own advice. Be fully honest with everyone. If it means risking losing them, so be it. Because to do otherwise is to deny them agency and respect. And how can you love a man you don't respect?
15 comments submitted at 14:12:02 on Jun 28, 2013 by The_Ringmistress